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Harold "Lanny" Monson

Restoring agency and connection through relational care

LMFT Utah

Experience
25 years in practice
Focus areas
Relationship, Family, Parenting
Approaches
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Client-Centered Therapy
Languages
English

About Harold

Harold "Lanny" Monson helps people who are looking to regain a sense of control, restore connection, and navigate difficult life transitions.

Background and approach

He brings 25 years of clinical experience as a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) and draws on a long history of work with trauma survivors, people facing substance use challenges, and those coping with identity-based mistreatment. His practice emphasizes supporting individuals who feel disempowered and helping them move toward greater agency.

Monson combines relational perspectives with practical strategies to address concerns such as anxiety, depression, addictions, grief, relationship and family struggles, ADHD, and compassion fatigue. He has substantial experience with sexual and physical trauma, domestic violence, and work with correctional and military communities, which shapes a pragmatic and empathetic stance.

Trained in family and human development and holding a post-master's certificate in marriage and family therapy, he names his independent practice "The Power Within" to reflect his focus on shifting from displaced power to personal strength.

Based in Utah and offering services in English, Monson accepts international clients and works collaboratively to tailor approaches to each person's goals and values.

Practical approaches for online relational care

Client-centered therapy emphasizes listening, empathy, and collaboration to help clients clarify values and make choices that feel right for them; it supports people coping with life transitions, relationship strains, and feelings of powerlessness. Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) focuses on identifying and changing unhelpful thoughts and behaviors, offering concrete tools for managing anxiety, depression, and patterns that interfere with daily functioning. The Gottman Method brings research-based communication and relationship skills to help partners rebuild trust, improve interaction, and resolve recurring conflicts.

Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will discuss goals, preferences, and practical needs with each person and adapt methods over time, combining relational work with skills-based strategies when appropriate to fit what the client hopes to accomplish.

Online sessions include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging, which make it easier to fit therapy into busy or geographically dispersed lives. These options provide flexibility in scheduling and let clients continue consistent work between sessions using formats that match their comfort and availability.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does this therapist commonly address?
He works with a wide range of issues including relationship and family difficulties, addiction, trauma and abuse, anxiety and depression, grief, self-esteem, ADHD, and intimacy-related challenges.
What is the therapeutic style and approach?
His work blends client-centered principles with cognitive behavioral techniques, mindfulness, motivational interviewing, and elements of the Gottman Method to create practical, relationally focused interventions.
What kind of background and experience does he bring?
He has 25 years of clinical experience, extensive volunteer work in correctional settings, military family advocacy experience, and long-term involvement with substance use and domestic violence treatment.
What credentials and location information are provided?
He is an LMFT licensed in Utah and lists license details UT LMFT 5788419-3902 and WA LMFT LF61263076, and he practices from Utah.
In what language can sessions be conducted and are international clients accepted?
Sessions are conducted in English and he does accept international clients.
Which session formats are available for working together?
He offers a variety of online formats including video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to suit different needs and schedules.
How is cost handled for sessions?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions are provided through a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
What are the steps to begin therapy with this clinician?
To start, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteem

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsLGBTTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCancerChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHearing impairedHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaTraumatic brain injuryTrichotillomaniaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

25+ years

Licensed

Utah, Washington

Languages

English