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Neil Steinert

Supportive clinical social worker focused on practical change

LCSW New Jersey

Experience
13 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, LGBT, Relationship
Approaches
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Attachment-Based Therapy
Languages
English

About Neil

Neil Steinert is an LCSW with 13 years of clinical experience who works with people coping with anxiety, depression, relationship challenges, grief, trauma, parenting struggles, and a broad range of life transitions.

Background and approach

He also supports clients navigating LGBT issues, intimacy-related concerns, ADHD, stress, career questions, and complex family dynamics. Drawing on practical therapeutic tools, he aims to help clients build on existing strengths while developing new coping strategies.

His practice blends Cognitive Behavioral Therapy with attachment-informed approaches and mindfulness techniques, along with solution-focused methods and motivational interviewing to tailor sessions to each person’s needs. Neil emphasizes collaboration, helping clients set concrete goals and try evidence-informed strategies that fit their lives.

He brings lived experience with relationship changes and life adjustments, and he incorporates clients’ values and preferences into treatment planning. Based in New Jersey, Neil accepts international clients and offers multiple online session formats to increase access.

He invites prospective clients to complete a brief matching questionnaire and schedule according to his availability so they can begin working on the concerns that brought them to therapy.

How therapeutic approaches translate to online care



Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on identifying unhelpful thoughts and testing more effective ways of thinking and behaving; it is useful for issues like anxiety, depression, and stress by providing concrete tools and homework to practice between sessions. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at relational patterns formed early in life and explores how those patterns influence current relationships and emotional responses, which can help with intimacy issues, family dynamics, and communication problems. Mindfulness Therapy teaches present-focused awareness and acceptance skills that support emotion regulation and reduce reactivity in situations involving grief, trauma, or anger.

Finding the right combination of approaches is part of the therapeutic process. The therapist works collaboratively with each client to decide which methods fit their goals, needs, and preferences, and will adapt strategies as therapy progresses to better match what is most helpful.

Online therapy offers flexibility through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging, making it easier to fit sessions into busy schedules and to continue care from different locations. These formats allow licensed professionals to deliver skill-based work, guided exercises, and regular check-ins in ways that can be convenient and consistent with a client’s lifestyle.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does he commonly address?
He works with anxiety, depression, stress, grief, trauma and a wide range of relationship and family issues, as well as concerns like ADHD, intimacy-related problems, and career or parenting stress.
What therapeutic style can I expect in sessions?
Sessions are collaborative and goal-oriented, combining practical skill-building with attention to attachment patterns and mindfulness practices to help clients form new responses to difficult situations.
How much clinical experience does the therapist have?
He has 13 years of experience working with a variety of concerns and brings that background to individualized treatment planning.
What are his credentials and where is he located?
He is licensed as an LCSW in New Jersey with license number NJ LCSW 44SC05363300 and maintains a practice based in New Jersey.
Can people who live outside the country work with him?
Yes, he accepts international clients and offers services to people outside the United States.
Which session formats are available for appointments?
He provides video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to accommodate different communication preferences.
How are fees and billing handled?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions are accessed through a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
What steps are involved in beginning therapy with him?
To get started, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a session according to his availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

Family conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesCoachingADHD

Additional focus areas

Attachment issuesBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationEating and food-related issuesFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMulticultural concernsPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSexualityWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

13+ years

Licensed

New Jersey

Languages

English