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Paula Alexander

Calm, practical support for lasting change

LPC New Jersey

Experience
26 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Addictions, Trauma and abuse
Approaches
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
Languages
English

About Paula

Paula Alexander is a licensed professional counselor (LPC) in New Jersey who integrates practical, evidence-informed strategies to help people manage stress, anxiety, addiction, trauma, and anger.

Background and approach

With 26 years of experience, she blends structured therapeutic techniques with a warm, client-centered stance so individuals can explore thoughts and feelings and build healthier coping skills.

Her background includes work with a wide range of concerns such as grief, intimacy-related issues, sleeping and eating difficulties, parenting and career transitions, mood conditions like depression and bipolar, and behavioral concerns including codependency and process addictions. She also addresses panic attacks, phobias, personality disorders, and compassion fatigue, tailoring interventions to each person’s needs.

Paula emphasizes collaboration and empowerment, guiding clients to take practical steps toward change while honoring their pace and goals. She creates an open environment that encourages honest reflection and skill-building, supporting clients as they pursue greater resilience and life satisfaction.

Therapeutic Approaches and Online Care



Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) helps people identify and change unhelpful thought patterns and behaviors, offering practical tools for managing anxiety, depression, panic, and many everyday challenges. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on accepting difficult thoughts and feelings while clarifying values and taking committed action, which can be useful for stress, avoidance, and life transitions. Client-Centered Therapy emphasizes empathic listening and creating a nonjudgmental space so clients can explore their experience and build self-directed solutions.

Finding the right combination of approaches is part of the therapeutic process, and the therapist works collaboratively to determine what best fits a client’s needs, goals, and preferences. Together they assess what helps most and adjust methods as progress unfolds, making choices that align with the individual’s pace and priorities.

Online therapy through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging offers flexibility for people managing busy schedules or mobility constraints. These formats allow consistent access to licensed professionals and make it easier to keep treatment on track from home or other convenient locations while supporting continuity of care and ongoing skill practice.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does this therapist address?
Paula works with a broad range of issues including stress, anxiety, addictions, trauma and abuse, anger, grief, intimacy-related issues, and sleep and eating problems.
What therapeutic style can I expect during sessions?
Her practice emphasizes evidence-informed methods such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and a client-centered stance that prioritizes the client’s perspective and goals.
How much clinical experience does she have?
She brings 26 years of professional experience working with diverse clinical concerns and helping clients develop coping skills and practical strategies.
What are her credentials and where is she licensed?
Paula holds the LPC credential and is licensed in New Jersey under NJ LPC 37PC00632600.
Does she offer sessions in languages other than English?
Sessions are provided in English only, and she is not accepting international clients at this time.
Which session formats are available for online work?
Clients may connect through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging according to what fits their needs.
How are fees and payment handled?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
What is the process for beginning therapy?
To start, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions based on the therapist’s availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

CodependencyDrug and alcohol addictionFirst responder issuesGuilt and shameImpulsivityPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPhobiasPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Social anxiety and phobiaYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

Experience

26+ years

Licensed

New Jersey

Languages

English