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Dabney Hayes

Compassionate clinician guiding practical change

LPCC, LPC North Carolina

Experience
14 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Family, Trauma and abuse
Approaches
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
Languages
English

About Dabney

Dabney Hayes is a licensed counselor with more than 14 years of clinical experience who focuses on helping people move past shame, addiction, trauma, grief, and persistent self-criticism.

Background and approach

She draws on a client-centered, integrative approach to support people who are struggling with anxiety, depression, relationship and family stress, parenting challenges, anger, and other life transitions. Her work emphasizes building healthier relationships with thoughts and feelings and encouraging more authentic, confident living.

In sessions she uses a blend of established methods, including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), alongside attachment-focused work and skills from Dialectical Behavior Therapy when helpful. Dabney has provided therapy in individual and group settings and brings a nonjudgmental, compassionate stance to each client encounter.

She accepts international clients and practices from North Carolina as an LPCC and LPC, supporting people through a range of concerns from chronic stress and compassion fatigue to eating and sleep issues, ADHD, and codependency.

How Dabney's Approaches Translate to Online Therapy

Clients working with Dabney can expect practical, evidence-informed methods delivered in a collaborative online setting. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on identifying and changing unhelpful thoughts and behaviors to reduce symptoms like anxiety and depression; it often includes homework and skills practice between sessions. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people clarify values and build psychological flexibility by learning to accept difficult thoughts and feelings while committing to meaningful actions. Attachment-Based Therapy explores relational patterns and attachment needs to improve how clients relate to others and manage emotional wounds.

Choosing the right approach is a team effort. Dabney partners with each client to assess goals, preferences, and life context, then adapts techniques from these models to create a personalized plan. That collaborative process helps ensure therapy aligns with what the client hopes to change and how they prefer to work.

Online sessions offer flexibility for people juggling work, family, or geographic constraints. Video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging allow for real-time conversation or shorter check-ins when needed, making it easier to maintain continuity of care and practice new skills between appointments.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Dabney commonly address?
She works with a wide range of issues including stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, depression, addictions, relationship and family difficulties, grief, eating and sleeping problems, and ADHD.
What is Dabney's therapeutic style?
Her approach is client-centered and integrative, combining practical skills training with compassionate exploration to help clients change unhelpful patterns and live more authentically.
How long has she been practicing?
She brings 14 years of clinical experience delivering individual and group therapy across a variety of presenting concerns.
What credentials and location are listed for this therapist?
She is licensed as an LPCC and an LPC with license details CA LPCC 21269 and CO LPC 0016842, and she practices from North Carolina.
Can people who live outside the United States work with her?
Yes, she accepts international clients and conducts sessions in English.
Which session formats are offered?
Clients may meet with her via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging according to their needs.
How are fees and payment handled?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability and sessions are provided through a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
What are the first steps to begin therapy?
Get started by selecting the Start Therapy button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and scheduling a session based on therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyEye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

14+ years

Licensed

North Carolina, Florida, Washington, Colorado, California, South Carolina

Languages

English