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Deirdre Gaspari

Practical, compassionate therapy for life transitions

LCSW New York

Experience
27 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Grief, Self esteem
Approaches
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Mindfulness Therapy
Languages
English

About Deirdre

Deirdre Gaspari is a licensed clinical social worker based in New York who helps people manage stress, anxiety, depression, grief, self-esteem challenges, and major life changes. With 27 years of clinical experience, she guides clients through emotional transitions and persistent mood concerns using practical, evidence-informed strategies.

Background and approach

Her work also addresses related issues such as body image, caregiver stress, chronic illness and pain, social anxiety, panic attacks, and feelings of isolation. Her therapeutic stance prioritizes empowerment and self-compassion, helping clients identify unhelpful thought patterns and develop concrete coping skills.

She draws on cognitive behavioral techniques alongside mindfulness and motivational strategies to build resilience and reduce distress. Deirdre aims to create a respectful and personalized space where people can explore difficult emotions, challenge limiting beliefs, and strengthen day-to-day functioning.

Practices include problem-focused planning and brief solution-oriented steps when appropriate, as well as support for longer-term work around identity, self-love, and managing shame or guilt. She holds an LCSW (New York LCSW 079581) and conducts sessions in English for clients located in New York.

Practical therapeutic approaches for remote care

Deirdre often uses cognitive behavioral therapy to help clients identify and shift unhelpful thoughts and behaviors; CBT focuses on concrete skills such as thought records, behavioral experiments, and structured problem solving that can reduce anxiety, manage mood, and improve daily functioning.

She also integrates mindfulness therapy to cultivate present-moment awareness and reduce reactivity, using brief attention and breathing practices that can help with stress, rumination, and coping with chronic health issues. Motivational interviewing is another tool she draws on to clarify values and strengthen motivation for change, which is useful for behavior changes like smoking cessation or building healthier routines.

Choosing the right approach is collaborative: she will work with each client to explore what fits their goals, preferences, and life circumstances, adapting techniques over time. The process emphasizes listening, setting achievable steps, and adjusting plans based on what helps.

Online work offers flexibility through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging, making it easier to access therapy around work and caregiving demands. These formats support continuity of care and allow practical skills and exercises to be reviewed and reinforced between synchronous sessions.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she commonly address?
She works with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, low self-esteem, and coping with life changes, as well as related areas like body image, caregiver stress, chronic illness, and social anxiety.
What is her general therapeutic approach and style?
Her style emphasizes empowerment, self-compassion, and practical skills. She combines cognitive behavioral methods with mindfulness, motivational interviewing, and solution-focused techniques to tailor care to each person's needs.
How much clinical experience does she have?
She has 27 years of experience working with a range of emotional and behavioral concerns, bringing long-term clinical perspective to treatment planning and skill development.
What credentials and location are listed for this therapist?
She is an LCSW with license number NY LCSW 079581 and is located in New York.
In which language does she provide services and are international clients accepted?
Services are provided in English, and she is not currently accepting international clients.
Which session formats are available for working together?
Sessions can be conducted via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging depending on client preference and scheduling.
How is cost handled for sessions?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; services are offered through a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
What are the steps to begin working with her?
To start, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Additional focus areas

Body imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityDomestic violenceGuilt and shameImpulsivityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessMood disordersNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksSelf-loveSmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

27+ years

Licensed

New York

Languages

English