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SL Portrait of Shelly "Sheldon" Lewin

Shelly "Sheldon" Lewin

Experienced clinician focused on practical change

LICSW, LCSW New Mexico

Experience
30 years in practice
Focus areas
Relationship, Trauma and abuse, Career
Approaches
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)
Languages
English

About Shelly

Shelly "Sheldon" Lewin brings three decades of experience helping people navigate major life challenges and rebuild equilibrium. He blends lessons from a lengthy career in executive roles at major health systems with a person-focused clinical practice, emphasizing empathy, resilience, and practical skills.

Background and approach

His work addresses relationship strain, trauma and abuse, career transitions, depression, coping with life changes, addictions, grief, eating concerns, anger, self-esteem, bipolar disorder, coaching needs, and compassion fatigue. Lewin draws on a range of therapeutic approaches to tailor treatment to each client's situation, often combining cognitive-behavioral tools with psychodynamic insight and solution-focused strategies.

He holds LICSW and LCSW credentials and practices from New Mexico, applying a strengths-based, collaborative stance that foregrounds clear goals and steady progress. Outside of therapy he enjoys travel, hiking, reading, and art, and he lives in New Mexico with his wife and their Yorkie.

His guiding principles - positivity, confidence, and persistence - inform a supportive atmosphere where people work toward greater clarity and practical change.

Approaches that guide online sessions and how they help

Lewin frequently uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to help clients identify unhelpful thought patterns and develop concrete skills for managing mood, anxiety, and addictive behaviors. He also incorporates Emotionally-Focused ideas to explore patterns in close relationships and to strengthen emotional awareness and connection when working through relationship distress. Motivational Interviewing is used to support readiness for change, especially around substance use or other behaviors where ambivalence is common.

Finding the right approach is part of therapy; he works collaboratively with each person to select and adapt methods that match their needs, goals, and preferences. Sessions begin with a shared plan and evolve based on feedback and progress so clients play an active role in shaping treatment.

Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging, which allow greater scheduling flexibility and make it easier to maintain continuity during busy or transitional periods. These options support ongoing skill practice, brief check-ins, and full sessions so work can continue even when in-person meetings are impractical.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does this therapist commonly address?
Shelly Lewin works with a wide range of issues including relationship difficulties, trauma and abuse, career stress, depression, grief, addictions, eating and anger problems, self-esteem, bipolar concerns, and compassion fatigue among other areas.
How does he approach therapy with clients?
His style blends practical, evidence-based methods with reflective exploration; he uses cognitive-behavioral techniques alongside psychodynamic and solution-focused strategies to tailor work to each client's goals.
What background and experience does he bring?
He has 30 years of experience including executive roles in major health systems and a long history of helping individuals and families during challenging transitions.
Where is he licensed and based?
He practices from New Mexico and holds LICSW and LCSW credentials with license details recorded as WV LICSW DP00946931 and NM LCSW SWB-2024-1008.
Does he provide services in languages other than English?
Sessions are offered in English only and he is not currently accepting international clients.
What formats are available for sessions?
Clients may meet via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging depending on preference and availability.
How are sessions paid for and what do they cost?
Cost varies by location and therapist availability; sessions are delivered through a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How does someone begin working with him?
To get started, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to his availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesTrauma and abuseCareer difficultiesDepressionCoping with life changes

Also works with

AddictionsGriefEating disordersAnger managementSelf esteemBipolar disorderCoachingCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationSelf-loveSex addictionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Motivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

30+ years

Licensed

Illinois, Kentucky, Florida, New Mexico, West Virginia, Arizona

Languages

English